I’m not known for subtlety; I’m blunt, often controversial, and speak in a straightforward manner. If you get offended easily don’t continue reading…
Look, there’s no sugarcoating here. Cheating is a complex beast and it’s dirty business. Why do some wives go for the nasty things with someone else but not with the man they said ‘I do’ to? It’s about excitement, the thrill of the forbidden. Humans crave novelty, and when the marriage turns into a routine with the sparks gone, they start seeking novelty elsewhere. Is it brutal? Yes. But it happens, and it’s a symptom of larger issues.
Many people, not just women, chase the dopamine hit from new romance, the adrenaline of sneaking around. They’re looking for something, a wild side that they think they can’t bring home because it doesn’t line up with their image of marriage. They’ve got this twisted idea that you can’t be both nurturing and wild, tender and scandalously exciting, with the same person. That doesn’t excuse it, but that’s the psychology.
And let’s be real, sometimes it’s about feeling desired. If you’re not making your woman feel wanted, if you’re not paying attention, somebody else might. That’s not to put all the blame on the guy, because at the end of the day, cheating is a choice. But it takes two to tango, and it takes two to let a marriage get so stale that this seems like the answer.
People like to pretend marriage is a fairy tale with no dark chapters. Well, wake up! Relationships are work, and if you stop working, stop communicating, stop bringing that fire, things fall apart. It’s ugly, but it’s life.
Am I saying it’s justified? Absolutely not. Cheating is betrayal, plain and simple. But if you’re asking why it happens, you’ve got to look at the whole picture – the human need for excitement, feeling wanted, and the marital stagnation that can drive a person to break vows. It’s not about condoning it; it’s about understanding it so you can guard against it.
Now, for the husbands out there, it’s a call to arms. Recognize the game! Keep the passion alive. That doesn’t mean outrageous stunts every day, but it does mean paying attention, keeping things fresh, and being the kind of man she doesn’t want to stray from. You control only your actions, not hers, make sure you are playing your A-game.
Marriage isn’t the end of growth or excitement. It’s a commitment to evolving together, keeping the flame burning bright. When you slack, the consequences can be severe. And if you find yourself in this mess, it’s time to reassess everything – your relationship, yourself, and where you go from here.
Remember, fellow lions, life’s a battle and love is the war. Equip yourself, fight smart, fight hard, and fight to win.
I’m blunt, often controversial, and speak in a straightforward manner. If you get offended easily buzz off
