Gentlemen, ladies, and all the keyboard warriors out there who love to criticize and judge, listen up because I have a tale to tell. My son, Bez, just turned 1 year old, and let me tell you, it has been one hell of a ride.

I never imagined that I would be a single mother of two young boys, navigating the stormy waters of separation and co-parenting, all while trying to keep my sanity intact. But here I am, standing tall and proud, because I have conquered every obstacle that has come my way.

When my ex-partner and I decided to part ways, I was crushed. Not only was I dealing with the pain of a failed relationship, but I also had to come to terms with the fact that my children would now grow up in a broken home. It was a tough pill to swallow, but I knew that I had to stay strong for my boys.

Being a single mother is no easy feat, let me tell you. Waking up at the crack of dawn to change diapers, make breakfast, and get two little ones ready for the day is a challenge in itself. Add to that the emotional strain of co-parenting with someone who used to be your partner, and you have a recipe for disaster. But I refuse to let that get me down.

I am determined to give my boys the best life possible, even if it means sacrificing my own needs and desires. I may not have all the answers, and I may stumble along the way, but I will never give up on them. They are my flesh and blood, my legacy, and I will move mountains to ensure that they have a bright future ahead of them.

Every day is a battle, a test of my strength and resilience. From dealing with tantrums and tears to juggling work and childcare responsibilities, I am constantly on the go, barely catching a moment to breathe. But I wouldn’t have it any other way. These boys are my world, my reason for waking up in the morning, and I will do whatever it takes to see them smile and thrive.

As Bez turned 1, I couldn’t help but feel a sense of pride and accomplishment. Despite all the odds stacked against me, I have managed to raise a beautiful, healthy, and happy little boy. He is a ray of sunshine in my life, a reminder that love knows no bounds and that anything is possible with determination and perseverance.

So to all the naysayers who have doubted me, who have criticized my choices and judged my actions, I have one message for you: watch me rise. Watch me conquer my fears and insecurities, watch me defy the odds and prove that a single mother can be just as capable and loving as any parent out there.

My journey as a single mother has just begun, and I am ready to face whatever challenges come my way. I may be tired, stressed, and overwhelmed at times, but I will never falter in my commitment to my boys. They are my heart and soul, my reason for being, and I will stop at nothing to ensure that they have the best life possible.

So here’s to Bez, my little warrior, who has taught me more about love, resilience, and strength than I could have ever imagined. As we embark on this journey together, I know that we will weather any storm and come out stronger on the other side. And to all the single mothers out there who are fighting their own battles, remember this: you are not alone, and you are capable of greatness. Keep pushing forward, keep loving fiercely, and never lose sight of the incredible impact you have on your children’s lives. Cheers to the single mothers who refuse to back down and who will stop at nothing to raise happy, healthy, and thriving children. Let’s show the world what we’re made of.

As Bez turned 1, I couldn't help but feel a sense of pride and accomplishment

I may be single but not beaten

My Whys

These boys give me life

I’ll never let them down

Happy Birthday Dear Bez

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