Traditionally, classy means to be stylish, superior and elegant; respectable and lovely. However, I find the traditional definition and ideas on what it means to be classy can be confusing. So I am here to hopefully explain once and for all, what it means to be classy.
Let’s re-define classy in a better way: a genuine, high value woman who holds herself and thinks of herself highly regardless of life circumstances, and despite what other people may think of her.
In slight contradiction to that, however – A classy woman does not judge herself regardless of what mistakes she might make. It’s a slippery slope – once you start making mistakes, you might judge yourself, and if you’re unlucky, others might judge you, and your confidence starts to diminish – sending you in to deeper low self esteem or bad self image.
So it’s kind of like, once you start off being a mistake maker, or once you start off being (or feeling) low status, you feel worse and worse, and because you feel worse and worse, and you show up less classy.
So the truth is – there are two aspects of being classy – there is the internal aspect and the external aspect. The external aspect has everything to do with how you show up, how you hold yourself and your habitual facial expressions, and it’s also about how you dress.
The internal aspect is the harder one to master because it takes bravery and trust in the process. Regarding the internal aspect of being classy – it’s all mental and emotional. So, to be classy from the inside-out is about your freedom to not judge yourself; it is about you opening in love and loving where you are at – and loving where others are at, regardless of how judge-worthy they might be (or you might be).
You can’t dress high status and ignore the internal aspect – you will ‘look’ classy and high status, but as soon as people speak to you all hope is on the way out.
A classy woman also knows that aiming for perfection is pointless because there is so much perfection in imperfection. Moreover, because of these attributes, a classy woman can handle all social situations and conversation with confidence.
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