Warning I’m going to be brutally honest, if that’s not your speed don’t read my response
Alright, let’s get one thing straightened out right off the bat. If your ex has stayed single for years after your split, do you genuinely believe it’s because they are pining away in some secret shrine they’ve built in their mind just for you? Or maybe, just maybe, it’s because they’ve ascended to a higher plane of self-realization, and you were merely a stepping stone on their path to enlightenment.
Reality check—they ain’t sitting around being Romeo writing sonnets about you.
Reality. This is what people dodge. They dodge it like taxes. Look, I’m not here to coddle your ego, but let’s be absolutely clear—you’re not the sun around which their world orbited.
People evolve. They grow. They change their games. Staying single isn’t a damnation of their existence revolving around your absence. Nah, it’s just proof they might have actually leveled up.
See, there’s a thing about lessons—life dishes them out like the best casino in Vegas. Every bet you place, every hand you play, you learn something. If your ex is still single, they’re likely taking a goddamn master’s course in life without you. They’ve learned what they need, and maybe the first lesson was being crystal clear about what they don’t need—you.
Anybody who’s still hung up on the idea that being single is inherently a beacon of want or loss, hear me now: you’re thinking like a novice. A real player, a genuine conductor of their own fate, knows that solitude is often the time to sharpen your edges, refine your strategies, and come out ten times better, ten times fiercer.
So stop this self-serving fantasy that they’re mourning your absence, wishing you’d return like some lost hero. And don’t get twisted—if they’ve been single, it isn’t because they’ve learned some tragic, Shakespearean lesson of not getting involved ever again. Come on! It’s because they’ve adapted, they’ve learned, and now they’re finessing their lives to their own satisfaction.
Don’t flatter yourself—elevate yourself. They did.
Reality check—they ain't sitting around being Romeo writing sonnets about you. I'm not here to coddle your ego, but let's be absolutely clear—you're not the sun around which their world orbited. Don't flatter yourself—elevate yourself. They did.
