Alright, listen up! This is coming straight from the Slay Motivation playbook, and it’s about time we get real. Will a narcissist stop coming back to you? Absolutely not! A narcissist is like a moth to a flame, chasing after anything that feeds their ego, and if you’ve given them a taste of that, they’re going to want more.
Why? Because a narcissist craves attention and validation like the rest of us need air.
They live for the chase, thrive off the conquest, and the moment they sense that they’ve got a hold of you, they’ll keep coming back, testing the waters, seeing if there’s still that glimmer of admiration in your eyes when you look at them.
But here’s the kicker: you have the power to extinguish that flame. If you stop giving them the fuel they need—stop playing into their games, stop giving them the attention they crave—they’ll eventually get bored. Boredom is a narcissist’s kryptonite. It forces them to look elsewhere to find someone new to dazzle with their charm and manipulations.
You have to be steadfast, unyielding. It’s not just about closing the door; it’s about sealing it shut, so tight that even their charm and charisma can’t pry it open. Don’t fall for their tricks and promises of change, because a narcissist’s reflection is the only thing they’ll ever truly care about.
So, will they stop on their own? No. But can you stop them from coming back by taking control? Absolutely. Stand your ground, know your worth, and watch as they slip away in search of their next ego supply.
Remember, the power is in your hands. Be bold. Be unbreakable. Be the force they underestimated. Because at the end of the day, you’re the prize—not them.