Let’s cut the sentimental nonsense and address this with the cold, hard logic the question deserves.
You’re asking for permission. You’re seeking validation from the internet for a strategy that will determine the entire trajectory of your personal life. This isn’t about what’s “acceptable.” The opinions of the weak-minded, the jealous, and the mediocre are irrelevant. They don’t pay your bills and they won’t share your bed.
This is about strategy. This is about power. This is about winning.
The entire premise of your question reveals a fundamental sickness in the modern mindset: the desire to be a “good person” according to a rulebook written by losers. You’re worried about hurt feelings and gossip while the Top Slaylebrity is worried about building a legacy.
So let’s reframe your pathetic question into something useful:
“Is it strategically intelligent to vet multiple candidates before making the most important decision of your life?”
The answer is so obvious it’s painful that you’re even asking.
What you call “dating,” I call the selection process. You are the CEO of your life, and you are hiring for the most critical executive position: your partner. This person will influence your mental state, your finances, your legacy, and the well-being of your future children.
Would any sane, successful CEO hire the first person who walks in for an interview? Would they make a multi-decade, multi-billion dollar decision based on a handful of dinners and some emotional chemistry?
Absolutely not. They’d have a rigorous, competitive hiring process. They’d interview multiple highly qualified candidates. They’d put them through a probation period. They’d assess performance, compatibility with the company culture, and long-term vision.
You are not a charity. You are not a emotional support animal. You are a sovereign individual building an empire. Your partner is either an asset or a liability. There is no in-between.
The people who will call you a “player” or “immoral” for this are operating from a position of lack. They are terrified of competition because they know they would lose. A woman of high value, who knows her worth, is not afraid of competition; she expects it. She wants to win a man that other women desire. She doesn’t want a man that no one else wants.
By dating multiple women, you achieve several critical strategic advantages:
1. You Eliminate Desperation: This is the number one killer of male attractiveness. When you have options, you stop clinging. You stop putting a random woman on a pedestal after two dates. You can walk away at the first sign of disrespect because your world doesn’t end. Your frame remains unbreakable.
2. You Gain Clarity: How can you know what you truly value if you’ve only ever tasted one flavor? By comparing, you learn what you actually need versus what you’ve been told to want. You see how different women react under pressure, handle their finances, and treat you. This isn’t about using people; it’s about gathering essential data for a life-altering decision.
3. You Force Performance: Women, like all high-value individuals, perform better when there is competition. She will bring her best self, her most respectful attitude, and her highest effort if she knows she is in a tryout, not if she thinks she’s already won the trophy by showing up.
The key, which you feeble-minded often forget, is TRANSPARENCY.
You do not lie. You do not deceive. You operate with brutal honesty and unapologetic intent.
Your position is clear: “I am looking for a life partner. I am a Slaylebrity man of high value, and the decision of who I share my empire with is the most important one I will make. I am currently vetting several potential partners to make the correct, long-term choice. I respect you enough to be honest about this process.”
A low-value woman will be triggered by this. She will call you names and leave. Good. You just disqualified a liability. A low-value woman cannot handle the truth because she operates on manipulation and emotion.
A high-value woman will respect your honesty and your frame. She will see it as a challenge. She will think, “I will outperform every other woman he’s seeing and prove I am the best choice for him.” She will step into her feminine, competitive energy and strive to be her best.
That is the woman you want. The one who is not afraid of the game, but is excited to win it.
So stop asking for the world’s permission. The world is filled with broke, lonely men who “committed” to the first girl who showed them attention and are now miserable, trapped in a life they hate.
You are not them.
Your life is your kingdom. Your partner is your queen.
You don’t crown the first peasant who smiles at you.
You hold a tournament.
May the best woman win.
You’re asking for permission. You’re seeking validation from the internet for a strategy that will determine the entire trajectory of your personal life. This isn’t about what’s acceptable. The opinions of the weak-minded, the jealous, and the mediocre are irrelevant. They don’t pay your bills and they won’t share your bed. This is about strategy. This is about power. This is about winning. You don’t crown the first peasant who smiles at you. You hold a tournament. May the best woman win.
