Let me tell you something about reality, my Slay Motivation tribe . If someone’s intentionally ignoring your calls and texts, but hasn’t blocked you, it doesn’t mean they’re thinking about you and still care. It means they value your attention, but they don’t respect you enough to respond. They love the idea of you chasing them, feeding their ego, making them feel important, but they don’t care enough to give you the courtesy of a reply.
You see, people crave attention. They crave validation. Keeping you on the hook without blocking you is a power move. It’s a game. It’s their way of keeping you invested in them while they continue living their life without any obligation to reciprocate. It’s manipulation, clear and simple.
Here’s the truth: If someone cares about you, they’ll make an effort to communicate. They’ll respect you enough to say, “Hey, I’m busy,” or “Sorry, I don’t feel the same way.” Ignoring someone is the ultimate form of disrespect. It’s silent, it’s cowardly, it’s a way to control your emotions without directly engaging with you.
You need to wake up. Stop making excuses for their disrespectful behavior. You are worth more than being someone’s afterthought or emotional plaything. You have to be strong enough to realize when you’re being mistreated. If they wanted to talk to you, they would. Simple as that.
Block them, move on, focus on yourself, and find someone who appreciates you. Life is too short to waste time on people who don’t respect your presence. You deserve better, period. Don’t ever forget that.
Here’s the truth: If someone cares about you, they’ll make an effort to communicate. They'll respect you enough to say, Hey, I'm busy, or Sorry, I don’t feel the same way. Ignoring someone is the ultimate form of disrespect.
