Cheating liars—let me tell you something about them. They’re as easy to read as a book for children, if you know what you’re looking for. I’m going to give it to you straight, no candy-coating, because in the real world, that’s how you separate the winners from the losers.
First off, pay attention to their story. Does it change like the wind? One minute, it’s a late night at the office. Next, it’s drinks with a “friend” you’ve never heard of. Cheaters are like amateur novelists, constantly editing their lousy story, looking for the version that sells best.
Secondly, their phone suddenly becomes more guarded than Fort Knox. They’re jumping at every notification like it’s a grenade, and suddenly, they’ve got more passwords than a spy. If their phone’s suddenly off-limits to you, it’s not because they’re planning your surprise birthday party.
Their schedule? More erratic than stock market prices. They’ve got more late meetings than a politician and more sudden trips than a travel blogger. Real partners spend real time, not excuses.
Also, watch their eyes when they speak to you. Are they shifting around like they’re trying to watch a ping-pong match? They’re searching for an escape because the eyes, they don’t lie, brother. They can’t handle the guilt when they look at you, so they look away.
And hey, let’s not forget the mysterious expenses. If they’re blowing money like it’s nothing, and it’s not on you or something you can clearly see, guess what—they might be financing their steamy side stories.
Lastly, trust your gut. You’ve got instincts for a reason. It’s the same feeling that tells you there’s trouble ahead or something’s off. If your gut’s screaming that there’s a lie in the air, then tighten your belt because you’re probably right.
If you’re reading this thinking, “My partner’s doing all this,” then you’ve got some decisions to make. Don’t be anybody’s fool. You’ve got the knowledge—use it. Winners take control of their lives, they don’t wait for someone else to deal them a better hand. Remember, your time, your energy—it’s all you’ve got. Don’t waste it on someone who’s handing out lies like cheap flyers.
And if they are cheating? Cut the nonsense out of your life. You’re the prize, the top dog, the main event. You don’t need a deceitful trickster dragging you down. Get out there, be a lion among sheep, and take on the world like it’s yours—because it is.