Alright, here it comes—full throttle, no brakes. You wanna know if someone’s in love with you? Let’s break it down, Slay Motivation-style, straight-up raw, no illusions.

First off, forget the fluffy, fairytale nonsense. Love isn’t about someone whispering sweet nothings in your ear. It’s about actions, about what they’re doing when nobody’s watching.

Number one thing to look for? **Sacrifice**. Are they willing to go out of their way, break their back, and get out of their comfort zone for you? Love is about putting someone else first, even when it’s inconvenient. If they’re not making sacrifices, if everything is always on their terms, guess what? They’re just not that into you. Simple.

Second, **context matters**! In a world full of distractions, love means making someone a priority. If this person is dropping whatever they’re doing the moment you need them, canceling plans to be with you without throwing a tantrum, that’s a sign. But don’t get it twisted—if they’re always “too busy” or “something came up,” they’re prioritizing everything else over you. See the truth, don’t make excuses for them.

Now, let’s talk about **respect**. Real love? It’s rooted in respect. Do they respect your opinions, your time, your space? Or are they constantly trying to mold you into their vision of an ‘ideal partner’? The one who respects you, cherishes your individuality, now that’s the person who’s truly in love.

Moving on: **consistency**. Love isn’t a part-time job. It’s 24/7, 365. Someone who loves you is consistently there—not just when it’s convenient. It’s not just about grand gestures; it’s about everyday actions. A person who checks on you, supports you, listens to your endless rants—day in, day out—like it’s their mission? That’s real love. Consistency seals the deal.

Okay, we’re heating up. Let’s hit **vulnerability**. If a person opens up to you, shows you their weaknesses, their fears, their raw, unfiltered self—that’s a big one. Love is about breaking down those walls, letting someone see the real you without any masks. If they’re showing you their soul, it’s because they trust you, and they trust you because they love you.

And then there’s **defense mode**. If someone snaps into protective gear the moment you’re in trouble, stands up for you, even risks something for you, they’re invested. Real love is defensive; it’s them against the world with you right by their side. If they’re throwing you under the bus, no questions asked, they’re not in love, they’re in convenience.

Lastly, **growth**. Someone in love wants to grow with you. They’re not just planning their future—they’re planning it with you. Do they talk about ‘us’ and ‘our future’, or is it all about ‘I’ and ‘my plans’? Tune into their language; it’ll tell you everything.

Cut through the illusions, see the raw truth. If they’re ticking these boxes, you’re not just a fling, a phase, a convenience. You’re their world. Anything less? Don’t settle.

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First off, forget the fluffy, fairytale nonsense. Love isn’t about someone whispering sweet nothings in your ear. It’s about actions, about what they’re doing when nobody’s watching.

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