FIRST SON AND FIRST DAUGHTERS OF FAMILIES HAVE SACRED RESPONSIBILITIES TO LEAD FAMILIES TO PATH OF PEACE AND HARMONY SO THEY CANNOT BE SPIRITUAL, MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL INFANTS
By Dr Ifeyinwa Nwakwesi MBBS
Growth mindset, and Integrative lifestyle specialist
The phenomenal woman.
In our society today so many families are in turmoil because of the decisions and poor choices of the men and women who are supposed to be leading the families to the path of peace harmony unity and progress.
Many parents worked hard strived to build great families with pedigree and assumed that on their demise the leaders of the family will use spiritual, mental, emotional maturity, common sense and wisdom to make empowering choices that will drive the family to greater heights.
Most of the time the deceased parents may have left some money and assets behind and prayed and hoped that the foundation they built will be a stepping stones to more progress for the family.
It is sad that the men and women who are supposed to be wise and leading the families with fairness transparency integrity and equity seem to be living inferior lives and even though they are adults they make mostly immature decisions and take actions thst are tearing the families apart.
Some of them profess to be Christians but they live mostly in the flesh and make most of their decisions based on the flesh. They are not intentional about their mindsets, and do not think of the consequences of their inferior beliefs thoughts feelings and actions on the family.
They have spiritual emptiness and become greedy and selfish hoping that amassing the wealth of the family will give them inner satisfaction.
This is a grand delusion because when they steal what belongs to other siblings they go to the bed and cannot sleep and they begin to suffer from all kinds of health issues and begin to take prescriptive drugs which is just masking the signs and symptoms.
Their parents send them warning messages from the graves and they are no longer in peace.
If they happen to be married to a woman who understands her role as a peace maker and a woman of character who lives in inner contentment harmony happiness peace humility integrity transparency compassion empathy and impact she will advise her husband to respent and do the right thing. It is up to the man to listen, take her advise and do the right thing.
Their are some women who are spiritual , mental amd emotional toddlers, who are innately wicked, wired for money and lack character who will be encouraging her husband and telling the other siblings they can go to court.
Some women decide to become dumb and deaf and pretend they are not aware of what is, going on and allow the matters to escalate.
These wives are liabilities and not assets,.
There are however some men and women first borns who are role models of good character and are doing great jobs of handling the family assets with equity and fairness . They even sometimes deny themslves to make sure all their siblings are okay.
The women who are (ADAS) also have very important roles of speaking out and condemning injustice. Some of them keep quiet especially if they are benefitting financially from the situation..
This matter requires urgent attention as we can no longer allow this unnecessary destruction of families great men and women built
I advise we organize trainings on how to be a first sons and first daughters of value and not liabilities so they can acquire profound knowledge stratagies and skills that can help them play their roles for more positive impact on the families.
Government should put in place a special family arbitration center to cater for disputes in families for quick setllemets instead of allowing families go through long court processes that keep the families in conflicts for many years
Healthy living services has also set up a conflict resolution skills acquisition center with experts in conflict resolution to help in managing these conflicts tearing families apart.
Parents should also learn how to distribute assets to their children in very clear terms when they are alive so there are no ambiguities and unclear terms.
In the final analysis, I am yet to see anyone buried with money and property.
It is the legacies we leave after we are gone that matters.
One may have money but have spiritual, mental and emotional poverty.
We do not need Spiritual, mental and emotional toddlers leading our families.
We want men and women of good conduct, role models of good character to pave the way for our children, grand children and great grand children.
May this divinenly-ordained message inspire these men and women to repent and begin to make better choices for the advancement and progress of the families that are under their leadership.
God bless
Dr Ifeyinwa Nwakwesi MBBS
Growth mindset and integrative lifestyle specialist
The phenomenal woman
CEO Healthy Living Services Nig Ltd
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