
Let me break it down for you in a way you’ll understand. Love isn’t about control or domination; it’s about securing the best version of yourself and your partner together. Abusers don’t express love; they express their own insecurity and weakness by trying to control someone else.
If someone is making you question whether you’re being loved too much or not at all, let me clear this up for you—it’s neither. True love doesn’t involve questioning your worth, it doesn’t involve manipulation, and it definitely doesn’t involve fear or pain. Love enhances your power; it doesn’t diminish it.
When someone loves you, they seek to empower you. They stand by your side, pushing you to the highest levels. They don’t need to control you to validate their egos. They don’t play games with your affection and diminish your self-worth. That’s not love; that’s insecurity masquerading as power.
The thing is, people often mistake manipulation and possessiveness for love because it feels intense. But listen carefully: intensity isn’t always love. True power in relationships comes from mutual respect and facing the world together as equals. If you or anyone you know is with someone who makes them question the very essence of love, it’s time to re-evaluate.
You deserve a relationship where love and respect flow both ways. It’s about building an empire together, not controlling or being controlled. Real power doesn’t hurt; it elevates. And real love makes you feel more like yourself, amplified.
Know your worth. If someone’s making you question it, it’s time to decide whether they should have a place in your life. Instead of asking if an abuser loves too much or not at all, ask yourself whether you respect yourself enough to walk away and seek something empowering and genuine.
So, think hard and long. Invest in yourself, boost your mindset, and don’t settle for anything less than an empire built on mutual respect and empowerment. Elevate, dominate, but don’t tolerate toxicity disguised as love.